Have you been in a long term relationship or marriage and lost that initial spark that brought you together? You still love each other, but are no longer “in love” with each other. Blaine can help you rekindle that spark and connect to the love that brought you together. Do you sometimes find yourself stuck in your relationship, repeating the same old arguments? Blaine can help you get “unstuck” from the patterns that are creating distance or conflict in your relationship.
Blaine’s specializes in helping couples transform roadblocks into stepping stones in turning their relationship around, whether you’ve been married for 30 years or you’ve been dating someone for a short time. He is skilled at helping couples resolve communication and conflict resolution problems, as well as letting go of old resentments and unresolved issues that have become like a cancer in your relationship
How couples counseling works is that Blaine likes to meet with both of you together for the initial session. After that, he may meet with you separately from time to time to dive more deeply into your perspective of the issues dividing you. Most of the sessions, though, will be with joint meetings with both of you present. Sessions are generally 50 minutes in length, although occasionally we will meet for a pre-arranged session and a half (75 minutes), to go more deeply into an issue.
